We all want to be happy or at least to feel happy. We all love positive people for spreading positive energy. There are plenty reasons to be happy about it can be : Money, child, work, colleague or coffee (yes coffee can bring happiness to many hearts).
I sat down and I wrote the reasons that make me Happy.
- Be magnanimous :
It’s to be kind toward others, to learn how to say thank you (especially at work).
At work we tend to forget to thank our colleagues or even our boss. It’s very important to say thank you to them…
It’s okay to spoil your colleagues and your boss by buying a gift. It’s also a way to say thank you for their help or just for being a good boss or a nice colleague.
It can be tricky if you buy to your colleague or boss …(hmm inappropriate gifts) But if you want to show your appreciation it’s a really nice gesture.
2. Have no expectation :
Expectation is the basic source of all disappointment. Wich leads us to be sad, and to be happy it’s better to avoid all kind of expectations.
The happiest people are the ones who have the lowest expectations of anything they experience.
Expectations is the root of all disappointment. Yes there are good reasons to have high expectations, so we drive ourselves harder to achieve more.
3. Give up complaining :
Complaining is a french concept ! French people complain about the weather, the coffee, the water, the work…about anything and everything.
Yes, we have to give up on complaining most of our time, complaing about everything and making everything a source of sadness.
No situations can make you unhappy until you allow it, it’s not about the situation itself but about how you look at it.
4. Surround yourself with positive people :
Positive people are always grateful for what they have, they refuse to see the negative sides and they are funny.
5. Forget about impressing others :
Stop to be someone who you are not.
Life is too short to not be happy!